My Ultimate Guide to Valentine’s Day in Ireland – Whether You’re Coupled Up, Flying Solo, or Out with Friends.
Ah, Valentine’s Day. That one day of the year when restaurants push overpriced set menus, flower prices skyrocket, and your social media feed is flooded with #CoupleGoals. Cynical? Me? Nah! But can we change the narrative that Valentine’s Day is just a celebration of romantic love? Let’s change it to a day when we celebrate all the love in our lives, whether it is self-love, platonic love or just a love of doing your favourite activity or visiting your favourite place. And it goes without saying you can celebrate the things, people, and pets you love every day of the year. And you should. No need to wait until February 14th. But just in case you want to mark the date, here are some things I would suggest you do to feel the love in Ireland this Valentine’s Day.
Things to Do in Ireland on Valentine’s Day – Whether You’re Coupled Up, Flying Solo, or Out with Friends
1. Stay in a Romantic Castle
For the ultimate fairytale experience, book a luxurious stay at:
Ashford Castle, Mayo – A five-star medieval castle set on a gorgeous estate with a spa, fine dining, and the oldest falconry school in Ireland. If you’re looking for grandeur, this is it.
Dromoland Castle, Clare – This historic castle mixes old-world elegance and modern luxury, complete with a golf course and award-winning restaurant.
Ballynahinch Castle, Galway – In captivating Connemara, this romantic retreat is perfect for couples who love nature, with woodland walks, open fires, and painterly views.
Abbeyglen Castle, Clifden – My personal favourite for a traditional Irish Valentine’s getaway. The warm hospitality, intimate candlelit dinners, and live music in the bar make this castle feel like home – just with an extra touch of magic! Click here to read my review.
2. Enjoy a Candlelit Concert
For a magical and intimate Valentine’s experience, why not bask in the glow of candlelight while listening to beautiful live music? Ireland has some stunning venues hosting candlelit concerts that set the perfect romantic tone.
Candlelight Valentine’s: Timeless Love Songs – St. Andrew’s Parish Church, Dublin, Feb 14 – This enchanting concert has a string quartet performing classical renditions of iconic love songs. The atmosphere in the historic St. Andrew’s Parish Church, illuminated by hundreds of flickering candles, makes for an unforgettable evening.
Valentine’s Piano by Candlelight – St. Patrick’s Cathedral, Dublin, Feb 14 – Held in one of Dublin’s most beautiful landmarks, this piano concert offers a dreamy selection of romantic melodies. With the Gothic architecture and soaring ceilings of St. Patrick’s Cathedral providing a dramatic backdrop, this is the ultimate setting for an intimate evening of music.
3. Take a Romantic Walk
Few things are more romantic than a breathtaking walk hand in hand with your loved one. Ireland has scenic routes a plenty with sweeping views, perfect for creating unforgettable Valentine’s memories. Take your pick from dramatic cliffs, coastal paths, or tranquil lakes to add a touch of magic to your day.
Cliffs of Moher, Clare – Dramatic views perfect for a sunset stroll along one of Ireland’s most famous landmarks. On a clear day, you can see the Aran Islands and beyond.
Howth Cliff Walk, Dublin – On this coastal walk, you’ll be surrounded by views of Dublin Bay, with plenty of delicious spots to stop for a coffee or seafood feast.
Dunquin Pier, Kerry – One of the most picturesque spots in Ireland with superb coastal views and an unforgettable backdrop for a romantic adventure. Just don’t drive down the pier! Google it, and you’ll see why!
Lough Ouler, Wicklow – Ireland’s very own heart-shaped lake! A hike to Lough Ouler in the Wicklow Mountains is an active way to spend Valentine’s Day. The moderately challenging trek rewards you with an aerial view of the naturally heart-shaped lake, making it a perfect spot if you are looking for a special, romantic-themed walk.
4. Have a Luxurious Spa Day
I love a spa day as I find them so indulgent and relaxing. They are fun with your significant other or even as a treat for yourself. Ireland is home to some super spas where you can unwind, rejuvenate, and enjoy luxurious treatments in tranquil settings.
Monart Spa, Wexford – One of Ireland’s top five-star spa retreats, Monart apparently (as I haven’t been yet) has a world-class thermal suite, private treatment rooms, and relaxing natural surroundings. It’s the perfect escape for a peaceful and pampering Valentine’s getaway.
Inchydoney Island Lodge & Spa, Cork – Famous for its signature seawater treatments and pools and endless Atlantic Ocean views, this award-winning spa is ideal for a relaxing and romantic experience. The heated seawater therapy pool is a highlight. Click here to read my review.
VOYA Seaweed Baths, Sligo – Inspired by ancient Irish wellness traditions, you can enjoy VOYA organic seaweed baths and tailored spa treatments that refresh and revitalise you.
Kelly’s Resort Hotel & Spa, Rosslare – One of my absolute favourites! This beachfront retreat is renowned for its thermal suite and spa, top-class dining, and beautiful coastal setting. The thermal suite and treatment rooms are blissful.
The Spa at Johnstown Estate, Meath – Another of my favourites! If you want to feel pampered and prized this spa is the place to be. The thoroughly modern and relaxing facilities, outdoor hydrotherapy pool, and luxurious treatments make for an unforgettable spa experience.
5. Indulge in a Romantic Dinner
Nothing sets the mood like a cosy, intimate dinner with dim lighting, flickering candles, and exquisite food. Ireland has some lovely romantic restaurants perfect for a unique Valentine’s meal. Whether you’re after fine dining or a snug hideaway, these places deliver atmosphere and charm.
Chapter One by Mickael Viljanen, Dublin – This Michelin-starred restaurant is where to go for an intimate and refined dining experience. It has soft lighting, plush seating, and impeccable service. The modern Irish cuisine is as beautifully presented as it is delicious.
Aniar, Galway – A Michelin-starred gem known for focusing on seasonal and locally sourced produce. The dimly lit, rustic-chic interiors create a warm and intimate ambience, perfect for those looking to savour a unique tasting menu.
Strandhill’s Stoked, Sligo – Situated by the sea, this cosy spot offers a laid-back yet romantic setting, with views of the Atlantic and a menu full of bold, flavorful dishes. The warm, inviting atmosphere makes it a great choice for a relaxed Valentine’s dinner.
The Port House, Dublin – A candlelit escape with rustic charm, perfect for couples, solo diners, or friends. Enjoy an intimate evening of Spanish tapas, sharing delicious small plates and toasting to love, friendship, or simply good company.
Bastion, Kinsale – This Michelin-starred restaurant offers a candlelit, cosy ambience and a menu that celebrates the best of Irish cuisine with a modern twist.
Moran’s Oyster Cottage, Galway – If you’re a seafood lover, this traditional thatched cottage, with its intimate nooks and open fires, is a dreamy spot for a romantic dinner.
Remember, celebrating Valentine’s Day in Ireland isn’t just for couples. You can enjoy all these activities alone, with friends, or with your pets!
6. Get Out on the Water
Make like Jack and Rose or Noah and Allie! If you want to feel like you’re starring in your own romantic movie, there’s nothing quite like drifting across the water, wrapped in a cosy blanket with a loved one. Whether it’s a tranquil lake, a dramatic fjord, or an Atlantic sunset cruise, Ireland has plenty of options for a dreamy boat trip.
Killarney Lakes Boat Tour – Take a journey through the stunning lakes and islands of Killarney National Park. This peaceful boat trip lets you soak up the beauty of the surrounding mountains and ancient woodlands, making it perfect for a romantic escape.
Dingle Bay Sunset Cruise – Set sail from Dingle Harbour and watch the sun dip below the Atlantic horizon while keeping an eye out for Fungi’s successors – yes, there are still dolphins spotted in the bay! The combination of golden-hour views and fresh sea air makes this a top pick for romance.
River Shannon Luxury Cruise – Rent a boat and spend a slow-paced, romantic weekend floating along Ireland’s longest river. Stop off in picturesque towns along the way, enjoying waterside pubs, historic castles, and complete tranquillity.
Connemara Fjord Cruise – Experience the raw beauty of Ireland’s only fjord with a boat trip around Killary Harbour in Connemara. This unique setting, with its towering mountains and deep blue waters, is an unforgettable way to spend Valentine’s Day.
Sunset Kayaking or Canoeing – For something more active, book a sunset kayak or canoe trip along the River Boyne or Lough Hyne in Cork. There’s nothing quite like paddling under a dusky pink sky, the gentle sound of the water making for a magical and intimate experience.
7. Visit St. Valentine’s Relics in Dublin
If you thought Paris or Rome were the most romantic places in Europe, think again! Dublin holds a secret that you may not know about! The city is home to the remains of St. Valentine himself, making it an unexpectedly fitting destination for lovebirds (or the curious solo traveller).
Whitefriar Street Church – Located on Aungier Street in the heart of Dublin, Whitefriar Street Church houses the relics of St. Valentine, gifted to Ireland by Pope Gregory XVI in 1836. Couples visit to say a prayer for their relationship, while singles might want to ask the patron saint of love to work a little matchmaking magic. The relics are enshrined beneath an altar, where people often leave love notes, flowers, and tokens of affection. If you’re in the mood for something a little eerie yet fascinating, this stop is a must on your Valentine’s itinerary.
8. Go Stargazing
If you’re looking for a truly stellar and romantic way to spend your evening, why not look at the stars and see how they shine for you? There’s something undeniably magical about stargazing, whether you’re bundled up with a partner or simply soaking in the vastness of the cosmos solo.
Mayo Dark Sky Park – One of the best places in Ireland for stargazing, this park is a designated International Dark Sky Reserve, meaning it offers some of the clearest views of the Milky Way, constellations, and even shooting stars. Bring a blanket, some hot chocolate, and settle in for an unforgettable experience. Click here to read my guide to the best things to do in Mayo.
Kerry International Dark Sky Reserve – Situated between the Kerry Mountains and the Atlantic Ocean, this is one of the most breathtaking locations for stargazing in the world. On a clear night, you can see planets, nebulae, and also an incredible array of stars with the naked eye. It’s the perfect spot for a dreamy, otherworldly Valentine’s experience. Click here to read my guide to County Kerry.
Om Dark Sky Park & Observatory, Tyrone – If you want to take your stargazing to the next level, this observatory offers expert-led events, telescopes, and even guided night sky tours, making it a great choice for an educational yet romantic evening under the stars.
9. Go to a Comedy or Music Show
They say laughter is the best medicine, and what better way to celebrate Valentine’s Day – whether single, coupled up, or out with friends – than with a night filled with comedy and live music? From belly laughs to soulful tunes, these venues will guarantee an unforgettable evening.
Laughter Lounge (Dublin) or Comedy Club Dolan’s (Limerick) – These legendary comedy venues offer some of the best stand-up acts in Ireland, with top comedians from home and abroad. Expect sharp wit, hilarious observations, and plenty of audience interaction to keep the night lively.
Drag Cabaret at The George (Dublin) – If you’re looking for something fabulous, fun, and full of sequins, The George is the place to be. With incredible drag performances, electric energy, and also a party atmosphere, it’s the perfect way to embrace Valentine’s with a touch of glam.
Live Music Venues (Workman’s Club, The Sugar Club, Dolan’s, Monroe’s Tavern) – Whether you’re into intimate acoustic sets, energetic rock gigs, or sultry jazz nights, these venues offer a range of live music acts to suit every mood. Enjoy candlelit tables, moody lighting, and smooth melodies for the ultimate Valentine’s night out.
10. Try Something New
They say variety is the spice of life, so why not shake things up this Valentine’s Day and try something completely different? Whether you’re looking to move, create, or sip on something delicious, there are plenty of unique experiences across Ireland to enjoy.
Salsa or Bachata Dance Classes – Get your body moving and your heart racing with a fun and flirty dance class. Whether you’re an experienced dancer or have two left feet, salsa and bachata classes are a great way to laugh, meet new people, and step outside your comfort zone.
Cooking or Cocktail-Making Classes – If food is the way to your heart, then learning to whip up something spectacular could be the perfect way to spend the day. From hands-on pasta-making workshops to expert-led cocktail classes, this is a great way to indulge and impress.
Craft Beer or Whiskey Tasting – Enjoy a guided tasting at Bushmills Distillery (Antrim), Jameson Distillery (Dublin), or Franciscan Well Bar and Brewery (Cork), where you can learn about the rich history of Irish whiskey and wine, all while savouring some of the best Irish drinks.
Baking Memories – Head to Bread with Benefits to get your hands doughy and learn the art of traditional bread-making. This is an interactive and fun food experience, and you’ll also walk away with some delicious homemade bread to enjoy.
Wood Turning Experience with Frayne Woodcraft – Try your hand at a cool new skill with a woodturning workshop at Frayne Woodcraft in County Meath. Under expert guidance, you’ll shape and craft your own wooden masterpiece. This makes for a memorable and creative Valentine’s Day experience, and you’ll also have a keepsake of your experience for years to come.
And those are my top recommendations for things to do on Valentine’s Day in Ireland.
I hope you have fun! Let me know what you would recommend for people looking for ideas on how to spend Valentine’s Day in Ireland. If you want more suggestions, email me! As I’d love to help you plan a gorgeous February 14th in Ireland.
If you are hungry for more blog posts on Ireland, here you go…
Firstly, if you’re heading to the West of Ireland, read my guide of things to do in Connemara.
I highly recommend adding Mayo to your Ireland road trip, and yes, of course, I have a guide to County Mayo.
If you want somewhere to stay in West Cork, read my review of Inchydoney Island Lodge & Spa.
Additionally, if you are going to Ireland’s Hidden Heartlands, please read my blog on Things To Do in Lough Derg.
Click here if you want to read about the best things to do in Waterford and my Waterford Travel Guide.
If you want some more Ireland travel guides, you can click here to read my guide on things to do in Wicklow and Kilkenny.
If you are visiting Ireland, look at my many blog posts, such as Things to Do in Ireland.
Furthermore, if you are looking for a place to stay in Galway, I highly recommend Glenlo Abbey.
I’ve also written a review of the Culloden Estate and Spa, which is perfect if you’re looking for a luxury hotel in Antrim, Northern Ireland.
Furthermore, for pre-trip research, click here to learn about the traditional Irish foods we use to celebrate St Patrick’s Day.
Click here if you want to learn about Christmas dinner in Ireland.
Finally, click here to learn about Easter in Ireland: Traditions, food, and festivities.
